Headstones and Grave Markers: Types, Costs, and How to Order
A guide to choosing a headstone or grave marker, including materials, engraving options, costs, and cemetery requirements.
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Headstones and Grave Markers: Types, Costs, and How to Order
A headstone or grave marker serves as a permanent tribute to your loved one. This guide covers your options, from simple flat markers to elaborate custom monuments.
Types of Markers
Flat (Flush) Markers
Lie flat with the ground
Easiest to maintain (mowers pass over)
$500 – $1,500
Often required in newer sections of cemeteries
Upright Headstones
The traditional vertical monument
More visible and decorative
$1,000 – $5,000
Can include engravings, portraits, and symbols
Slant Markers
Angled face for easy reading
Between flat and upright in size
$800 – $2,500
Good compromise of visibility and cost
Companion Markers
Designed for two people (usually spouses)
Can be flat or upright
$1,500 – $6,000
Names and dates for both individuals
Mausoleum Plaques
Bronze or marble markers for crypt fronts
$500 – $3,000
Size limited by mausoleum specifications
Materials
Material
Durability
Cost
Notes
Granite
Excellent
$1,000 – $5,000
Most popular choice, many colors
Bronze
Excellent
$800 – $3,000
Often used with granite base
Marble
Good
$1,000 – $4,000
Classic look, but weathers over time
Limestone
Fair
$500 – $2,000
Softer stone, erodes faster
Fieldstone
Variable
$200 – $1,000
Natural, rustic appearance
Engraving and Personalization
Modern headstones can include:
Names, dates, and epitaph — Standard text
Laser-etched portraits — Photo-realistic images
Religious symbols — Cross, Star of David, crescent, etc.
Custom artwork — Hobbies, military service, nature scenes
QR codes — Link to an online memorial page
The Ordering Process
Check cemetery rules — Required material, size limits, and base specifications
Choose a monument dealer — Compare at least 2–3 quotes
Select material and design — Review samples and proofs
Approve the proof — Verify all text, spelling, and dates carefully
Production — Takes 6 to 12 weeks typically
Installation — The dealer coordinates with the cemetery
Important: You are NOT required to buy the headstone through the cemetery. Independent dealers are often 30–50% cheaper.
Veterans' Markers
The VA provides free headstones and markers for eligible veterans. Options include:
Upright marble or granite headstones
Flat bronze, marble, or granite markers
Bronze niche markers for columbariums
Apply through VA Form 40-1330 or at va.gov.
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