How to Choose a Cemetery: Types, Costs, and What to Consider

A comprehensive guide to choosing a cemetery, including public vs. private, costs of plots, and what questions to ask before purchasing.

How to Choose a Cemetery: Types, Costs, and What to Consider

Choosing a cemetery is one of the most permanent decisions in funeral planning. This guide covers everything you need to know.

Types of Cemeteries

Public (Municipal) Cemeteries

  • Operated by local government
  • Generally least expensive option
  • Open to all residents
  • Basic amenities and maintenance

Private Cemeteries

  • Operated by businesses, families, or organizations
  • Often have more amenities (gardens, mausoleums, chapel)
  • May have higher prices
  • Some are exclusive to members or denominations

Religious Cemeteries

  • Affiliated with a specific faith
  • May require membership or adherence to faith traditions
  • Often beautifully maintained historic grounds
  • Special sections for different denominations

National Cemeteries

  • For eligible veterans and their families
  • No cost for plot, opening/closing, or marker
  • 155 national cemeteries across the US
  • Managed by the Department of Veterans Affairs

Green/Natural Cemeteries

  • Environmentally focused
  • No embalming, vaults, or non-biodegradable materials
  • Natural landscaping instead of manicured lawns
  • Growing in availability nationwide

Cemetery Costs

Item Cost Range
Cemetery plot (single) $1,000 – $4,000
Opening/closing of grave $500 – $1,500
Burial vault or liner $1,000 – $3,000
Headstone/marker $1,000 – $3,000
Endowment care fee $200 – $1,000
Columbarium niche (cremation) $750 – $5,000
Mausoleum crypt $3,000 – $30,000
Total (ground burial) $3,700 – $12,500

Key Questions to Ask

Before purchasing a cemetery plot, ask:

  1. What's included in the price? (perpetual care, opening/closing, etc.)
  2. Are there deed transfer restrictions? Can you sell or transfer the plot later?
  3. What are the monument/headstone rules? Size, material, and design restrictions
  4. Is a burial vault required? This adds $1,000–$3,000
  5. What are decoration policies? Rules about flowers, flags, and personal items
  6. What are visiting hours? Some cemeteries close at dusk
  7. Is the cemetery financially stable? Check the endowment fund status

Cremation Memorialization Options

Cemeteries offer several options for cremated remains:

  • Columbarium niche — A wall-mounted compartment for the urn
  • In-ground burial — A smaller plot for an urn
  • Scattering garden — A designated area for dispersing ashes
  • Bench or memorial marker — With a compartment for ashes

Planning Ahead

Purchasing a cemetery plot in advance can:

  • Lock in today's prices (cemetery costs rise 3–5% annually)
  • Ensure availability in your preferred location
  • Remove the burden of this decision from your family

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After the Burial

After the burial and funeral, families face the practical work of settling the estate. EverSettled provides guided support for probate, account closures, and insurance claims.